I used to tell people that the loneliness associated with our story made me want to go to AA meetings.  I would go and announce that I did not have a drinking problem (food is my big issue) but I just wanted to sit in a room full of people who did not flinch at tough stories.

I once looked up support groups for the families of sex offenders.  I did not like what I read.  The tone of the one I found suggested that the group was more interested in abuser advocacy and facilitation than I am.

I do not want to facilitate Sea.  He is guilty and he needs to change. 

I want to hold him accountable for what he has done

I want to tell him the truth and challenge his thinking

I want to prevent any more victims.

I do not believe he can or will police himself, nor do I believe he can ever be alone with a child

ever.