It has been 3 years now since I found out that my adopted son had abused children–my children.

Child abuse should never happen, but when it does the survivors need to know that it is not their fault.

For years I lived a full life unaware of the abuse. Terrible legacy. But for the past 3 years my children have lived in safety and have begun to heal.

I shudder to think about the past, but more than that I shudder to think what would have happened without our concerted efforts to bring out the truth.

The truth is Charles will NEVER be safe with children. We should not give predators access to any children.

It is not worth the risk
Not worth the heartbreak