Mark 6:32-33 (NIV)
So they went away by themselves in a boat to a solitary place. [33] But many who saw them leaving recognized them and ran on foot from all the towns and got there ahead of them.
Who would you run to meet?
Not amble or stroll: run.
Make no mistake. In the heart of the God of love, a stadium in the dark matters less than a child found strangled and bare in a park.
The child is a girl. The girl is thirteen. A foster child. Nameless. A mere silhouette.
Lost child.
So when you remember this amazing, expensive game we all stand still for.
Remember the dark.
Not a failure of technology; a failure of heart.
God in the dark.
Grieving
Dear Sir,
You are my dad’s age. He died after a helicopter crash a few years ago. Actually, around the time little Ethan was born. And pretty close to Newton–he died in Dothan.
You need to know that God has an answer to what is troubling you. A peaceful answer.
I am praying for both of you.
Please, Sir, let this little boy get home safe. His mama needs him back safe.
When I pray for you I see my dad. You traveled in a truck. He traveled in a helicopter. He flew over Dale County all the time.
Both you and Ethan are scared little ones to God. He loves you. And you are both precious to God. You are both in my prayers.
Please sir, move this mountain so Ethan can hug his mama soon.
Please.
Mark 6:32 (NIV)
So they went away by themselves in a boat to a solitary place.
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Go.
Go there too.
I have mostly modest gifts, but one that is extraordinary but of no monetary value is my ability to understand, remember, sort through who I was at 2 or 5, 4 or 7.
I still can see through mine younger eyes. Only now I see all the other stuff besides.
It is painful. No one is perfect. You tried. I know you did try. And when you tried you succeeded.
It took me a long time to realize that God always saw me clear–beautiful and lovable, valuable and dear.
The picture of us taken by dad’s cousin. The picture you must’ve taken of all of us–I am wearing a wild blue coat. Fuzzy.
I can look at these pictures now and feel the fierce heat of God’s love for that little girl.
I have always loved you. I cannot and won’t stop.
Your monster pictures of me are not real mom. They. Are. Not. Real.
What is real is this–
Somewhere in the world you have a grandchild who is your twin.
Resembling who you were when you were three. Adorable. When I look at this child I think–gosh, I was a cute kid.
When I look at this child I see you. And I love you both.
Think about it mom.
When you see me you see the Minotaur.
When I see you I see a beautiful little girl with a head of dark curls.
Beautiful child
Mom.
I see men who resemble you often. Like really close. Sometimes their wives resemble your wife. Sometimes the kids are even close.
Last weekend the impatient fruit seller was a dead ringer for H. H, who is also impatient with me.
I am afraid.
I almost call mom a few times. Just to say
I love you.
Ironically, even if I shouted it in German she would probably still understand.
Ich liebe dich!!!
What stops me is this terrible memory–a night in late summer, an infant and a toddler both held in my arms as I face an unknown accuser.
We now know it was mom. But then all I can think is–
what if they make me stay away from my babies?
I am jittery with an irrational fear. Because mom reported me when M kept running away.
M abused me, mom reported me as the abuser.
And she taught me that all the money in the world was not worth the risk. The labyrinth of her mind.
So I tell my kids about my fear. I tell them about my year in China and the million ways God took care of me.
Then I think of you. You standing on the bus, towering over the Chinese men, like you were their oversized parent or some strange incarnation of Snow White among the post-Maoist dwarves.
Overshadowing them.
Or how stingy and mean I was to you–making you climb the Great Wall with me but refusing you soda for water.
I should have got you the coke.
And while I can see us there together like an old woman watching a perfect movie about her own life…
The truth is I have lost you. Lost you so long ago I wonder if you were ever real.
When did you stop being real?
Mark 6:30-31 (NIV)
The apostles gathered around Jesus and reported to him all they had done and taught. [31] Then, because so many people were coming and going that they did not even have a chance to eat, he said to them, “Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest.”
He fingers the cheap rhinestone nose ring. Asks me about it. I say, I got it when you were a baby after something really bad happened. I got it to remind me that even when bad stuff happens, God is good.
My definition of quiet rest.
Mark 6:29-30 (NIV)
On hearing of this, John’s disciples came and took his body and laid it in a tomb. [30] The apostles gathered around Jesus and reported to him all they had done and taught.
When I write, when I look at the pairing of words, I look at the incongruities–the disciples are cruising around healing people while…the last OT prophet is imprisoned and murdered?!
Why not storm Herod’s palace? Kick some apostate butt?
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God sees the big picture. I don’t. I just have to keep my eyes on him, on the Cross.
He died. For me. For you. For John.
The Big Picture: Calvary.
Sometimes we must revise the focus of history. Sometimes we accept as fact things we should revile as facts:
Both of these famous women were rape victimsby modern FBI definition.
Both women were molested by older men who had all power over them.
If we are to heal the breaches of our own abuse stories, we must take away the power of their rapists, and give these women a new designation–
brave survivors
Mark 6:26-29 (NIV)
The king was greatly distressed, but because of his oaths and his dinner guests, he did not want to refuse her. [27] So he immediately sent an executioner with orders to bring John’s head. The man went, beheaded John in the prison, [28] and brought back his head on a platter. He presented it to the girl, and she gave it to her mother. [29] On hearing of this, John’s disciples came and took his body and laid it in a tomb.
Brutal.
The terrible excess, the exploitive relations, the complete moral collapse in this story is so hard to face.
An innocent man is butchered like a pig.
And then the quiet grief–his followers come and retrieve his body.
Make no mistake beheading someone is a political act of tremendous violence. And the grief that follows is heart wrenching.
John’s disciples. Where did they go? To Jesus. Another man on his own path towards a brutal death.
Surely, these guys were losers?!
Not in the end,
In the end…
they were right.
Carrying Light 