I am bemused with scientific studies. There is one out now stating that the “myth” that bras promote breast cancer has been refuted.
Apparently this was based on the fact that breast cancer is more common in developed than developing countries.
Seems far more likely that the tendency of women to have fewer children and eschew nursing would be a more significant marker.
I fact the healthiest thing for women is the following:
Have children before 30
Have many children
And nurse on demand for greater than one year per child.
Many mothers in developing countries do all these things, nursing children to 2 years and beyond and nursing far more years than women in industrialized countries.
One study said that every 12 months of nursing reduced breast cancer risk by 3-5 percent.
And that is only the benefit to mom. Babies who nurse on demand get countless advantages from the process.
I have a beautiful cousin who has recently battled breast cancer.
So when she posted this on Facebook–
I just used my boobs to get out of a ticket
I was pretty sure she had fallen prey to a game. But I thought, how do I not like this post?!
Either she has the sleekest, strongest sense of humor ever–able to reference the tough, painful, effacing road she has just travelled by poking fun at a reality that was never fun, or she has managed to wrangle herself out of a ticket as a double mastectomy survivor.
One way or other, she got my like.
This is me, posting on my wall, in honor of her–
I have never managed to do what you have done. Nope. Always got the tickets. Boobs never helped.
You are one of my heroes.
This was years ago. We were at a Christian summer camp and two of the camp nurses took me aside and chastised me for nursing (under a nursing shield) in sight of campers.
They said I needed to retreat to a bathroom so as not to…offend people.
I find this story itself replete with ironies, but none more than this–
The camp is connected to a chain of stores that sells inappropriate magazines at the checkout stations.
I contacted the headquarters to complain–no one should have to run a gauntlet of trashy magazines to buy milk. I kept the emailed response–
at least it was not frontal nudity.
The media rep responded.
Our society has a serious disjunct. Get coeds to tart your wings in skimpy outfits? Hurray for capitalism and feminism! See a woman discreetly nursing a child? Be offended!
God forbid we should use our breasts in public…wait for it…for the one completely life-giving thing they were designed to do.