It was the first illusion I left behind 14 years ago when I became a foster parent. There is no way to be cool when a small irate child is freaking out in your direction.
Now that she is older my adopted daughter’s preferred term for women is b!t?h. When she was mad at me as a child it was bad mommy.
No way to look cool when a small red-faced human is screaming that atcha.
But the truth is: cool is an illusion. Sure you can look great in skinny jeans. Sure you can own a hot tub. Sure you can buy a car, house, watch that defines you.
But make no mistake. Cool is an illusion.
There are no cool ICU patients. No cool nursing home residents. No cool corpses.
We humans are frail, helpless and bound to our mortal ends.
Cool is an illusion.
So if you love cool, if you crave cool, remember this:
There was a guy once who was cool. He was that Guy, the one who said–
Matthew 5:5-7 (NIV)
Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth.  Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.  Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy.
Nothing cooler than Jesus.
Because let’s face it. It is easy to say,
greater love has no man than he lay down his life for his friend
Easy to say it. But if you can do it? If you did do it? If you did it for me?
Because it cost Him everything
And He didn’t even blink